U-Haulling: Dating ought to be the get-to-know-you phase – maybe not the, we-have-stuff-in-common-so-I’m-just-gonna-move-in period. In the event that you meet some body plus they are pressing very hard to be always a couple right out from the gate – you need certainly to pump the breaks. This really is an indication that is clear this individual has parasitic characteristics – meaning they can’t look after themselves, they’re users and they’ve exhausted their last partner and they’re from the look-out for another person to feed away from. See my weblog entitled, comprehending the Parasitic Narcissist, to find out more. Just before ever, also give consideration to, relocating with some body, an entire heap of time needs to have passed away plus in this time around, you’ve witnessed that they’ll look after by themselves, they’ve got their shit together, they’re accountable economically, they’re dependable, you’ve invested lots of weekends together and have now done lots of test runs, the two of you are on a single web page, you’re compatible and it improves both your everyday lives. Usually do not go someone in since you need help paying the lease. Care for your sandbox that is own and certain your potential romantic partner usually takes care of theirs. . . .