Each year, if we work through Thanksgiving and Black-Eye Friday while the xmas Shopping Season formally starts, teenagers across the world begin to panic while they wonder: “exactly what the hell do I get my gf for Christmas time this season?”
It’s a trickier question than you’d think. Present offering, whether at xmas, Valentine’s Day or even a birthday celebration, may be fraught with insecurity and peril, specially when you’re at the start of a relationship that is new or even even worse, continue to be into the “are we/aren’t we” phase of dating. It’s a delicate balancing work: though you’re starting to get clingy and desperate if you spend too much, too early in the relationship, you risk coming off as. In the other hand, spend not enough and you also seem like you don’t care at all. . . .